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Have you ever had one of those relationship that you fought furiously with your lover? What did you do afterward? Did you leave the person permanently? Did you ever come back to the relationship? Do you feel comfortable going back to a relationship like that? I don’t know how it’s possible to get back to a relationship after you have fought furiously with the person. I have fought like this and I don’t think I can ever get back to that relationship. Do you think that it’s a good idea to get back to a relationship like that?

I have seen people who get back together after a long break up. It could be as long as two years. Wow! After I fight with someone that is it. I will never be able to get back with them. I think there’s a reason for the fight and if it’s bad enought then I can’t go back anymore. I have had ex boyfriend that call me up and wanting to get back together but I can’t do it. I have say a lot of hurtful thing to that person and they have also say a lot of hurtful things to me, therefore I don’t think that I can’t go back anymore. Even after you back with that person they will still have the same problems that have to fight about. I rather date someone new that don’t have problems like that. I know that you need to work out a bad relationship but only if you’re still in love with the person. If you’re still in love with the person then you wouldn’t be fighting that bad anyway and therefore you must not love the person anymore. I would feel very awkward if I have to go back to something that is damage already.

If you’re one of those unlucky person like me you will discover one day that your mate is cheating on you. What do you do now? You’ll probably be sad and heart broken. You will probably run around trying to calm yourself down. You will pity yourself. You’ll feel inadquate. You’ll feel betrayed by someone who you thought you trust. I’ve been through all of these myself.

I’ve walked into my boyfriend one time and discover that we was involved with a few other women. I even dated a person who was living with another girl. Almost every single person that I’ve dated have cheated on me one way or another. I was disappointed and felt like I’ve wasted a lot of my precious time on these men. That’s life, everyone will have these moments. Men seem to cheat more women. Why is this? Is it because they have more lust then us? They enjoy being with different people? It’s just the lust thing whereas with women, it’s love. We are losing to men somehow. It should be our goal to not reward ourselves with these relationships ever again. One day I made a promise to myself that I will never date another womanizer. I will make sure that they are a decent person. We can all do this. We can scan the guy and make sure that he’s a good guy. Men have take a heavy toll on women.

One of these day, you’ll be happy to discover that your mate is cheating on you. You should be happy because at least you know the truth and you can move on from there. Wouldn’t it be scarier to continue with someone that is living a double life? I rather find out the truth. I have seen it all the time that people continue with their current relationship and cheat on the side. I would not be able to forgive myself if I led that continue without confronting the other person. You should walk away from a bad relationship and don’t hold back. Many time people want to hold back because they feel comfortable with that relationship but holding back will hurt you more. You just have to let go and find something better for yourself.

The population of teenagers using marijuana is very high. You may not know it because they hide it from you but they do smoke it. It’s a trend nowadays that children use marijuana. I use to work at outdoor concerts and people were smoking marijuana like it was cigaretts. The fumes of it was all over the air. The concert goers were mostly young adults.

If you do find your children using it, you can try to talk them out of it but beware that they’re going to fight with you. One thing that you can rest your mind on is that marijuana is not that bad for your health. It has a few adverse action but other than that it’s not as bad as other illegal drugs. Marijuana can do a lot to help with medical conditions. Marijuana can stop cancer cells from growing. It can increase appetite and lower pain. It can do a lot for patients. The side effect is that patient can hallucinate and become lazy. Patient can also have slow brain cells growth. Parents that smoke during pregancy can cause down syndrome in children.

Marijuana cost a lot and therefore your children will be broke because they use most of their money on drug. Believe it or not but teenagers love drugs. Kids like beers and smoking. That’s what their friends do and that’s what they’ll also do. A lot of cases happened because their friends influenced them. You can find that children who smokes will also be looking forward to stealing your money to support their habits. They will be broke if they smoke because most likely they will spend most of their money on drugs. This is a sad things to see money go to waste but kids love the feelings of beers and smoking. I use to be a teenager and I know what they like. Working at the concert venue taught me that young adults love to drink and smoke illegal stuff. They do!
You can talk to your child about the adverse effect of the drug and wish that they should stop. Some kids are stubborn and they may even pick a really big fight if you try to stop them from doing their favorite thing. It depends on how good of a relationship you have with your children. You can try and see what will happen. Children have to be taught early to stay away from drugs. Usually kids start smoking because their friends force them to. You can also offer rewards and punishment to help your child stops. If they don’t stop you can take allowances away or tell them to move out of the house. You can offer them more allowances if they agree to stop smoking. Children will be stubborn and it all depends on what they are willing to do for you. When people get older they will realize that drug is not a good thing to do. The leading problem for poverty is drug use. You can also get your kids professional help to cure their addiction because marijuana is addictive.

I think that overpopulation is an issue nowadays. The government even says that we’re overpopulated and that we can’t afford to support all these people in the US. I think that people give birth too much and ended up being overwhelmed by their responsibilities. They don’t think before they pop those babies out. They think that they can take care of their babies with only one parent working. Some people don’t even have a job and they get pregnant. How will they support their baby without a job. They can go on welfare and get some help from the father but what happens if the father leaves and don’t pay child support.

You can pursue the father endlessly for child support but that’s a waste of time and energy. It’s also very frustrating as a women who gave birth to their child. I’ve seen numerous cases where the father just don’t care. I’m really concern with people that gives birth but unable to support their children right or even give their children the support they needed later on in life. If you’re wealthy then that’s alright but if you’re not then you should adopt a dog instead of giving birth to a baby. I think that most of the people will agree with me on this issue. Children needs a good family when they’re young and when they get older they need support so that they can go to college and have a safe and prosperous home.

I’ve seen too many story already of people that abuse their children or dump their baby in a garbage can or harm their baby or sell their baby. Why do you have to commit such a sin to children. Children are not meant to be treated in these ways at all. Children are a miracle gift from God and they should have a better life than the ones that I’ve described.

Some men have problems with getting dates. Men that are cute, successful and have everything but they don’t have a mate yet. They’re not doing something right them. Some men don’t make an effort to meet people. Some do. Some ended up ruining their date with the things they say and do. Some men just don’t know to romance a girl.

Step2

Do you even have someone that you’re going to go out with if not then you should hustle to find that person. You can go clubbing, social events, bars, coffee, hanging out places, sports event, local church, yahoo personal, chemistry.com, whatever it is you should try it all to meet as many people as you can so you can settle down with that person. You should date many people so you can get to know the right one but don’t tell them that you’re dating all of them at once. You should make the first step to ask them for a date , phone number, dinner and anything so you two can get together.

Step3

Once you get a date. Do your best to keep your date if you’re interested in her. If you’re not interested in her then you don’t have to worry about her at all. You can let her go and just be friends. If you’re interested in a woman, make sure you don’t do the things that will turn her off like talking about other women, making sexual advances too early. All of this could turn her off.

Married men cheat just like how married women would cheat. I’ve been cheated many times before and have witnessed many affairs before too. I’ve seen married co-workers cheat on each other. It’s shocking in disbeliefs but yes it does happen all the time. Why do women care about this issue because we can get hurt in the process. We could lose our minds, our money, our home and our children. Affair sure is an ugly thing. It’s as ugly as when you step on crap with your hundred dollars shoes.

Yes! I’m not one of the biggest fan of men anymore. I use to like them but since I’ve been cheated many times and have been hurt many times, I no longer appreciate men. I don’t even date anymore when I’m suppose to. Life is very scary in some aspects. Relationship is one thing that will get us falling on our face. We’ll be hurt and broken and the men just move on without caring a bit. I think that they’re cold blooded creatures sometimes.

Why do you think married men cheat. They cheat because they can and because there’s nothing better to do than cheating when it comes to their current relationship. They must be unhappy in some ways and that let them to cheat. If people are happy then why would they need to cheat. Why would a person who loves their wife or girlfriend cheat unless they have a reason to One of the reason why they cheat could be that they are unhappy with things in the relationship. The second reason is that the wife has frustrated them in some ways and they don’t find their wife to be fascinating anymore. They’re looking to move on while they’re wrapping things up with you. They think you’re cheating too and that you’re giving them the shoulder. It takes two to tangle. They’re just tire of the problems in the relationship and they want to move on. The longer people stay together the more problems they have. I have seen my parents fight every single day. They have millions of problems pile up as the years go by. You’re putting too much demand and pressure on them and they don’t want to be with you anymore. You use too much of their money if you don’t work or make them feel like you’re using them. They’re no longer interested in you. Some other girl is seducing him at work or somewhere and he can’t help it. These are just a few of the general reasons that I have observed over the years on why people cheat.

I use to date a health care professional; we were both health care professionals and the shocking thing is that we teach our patient how to communicate but we weren’t able to communicate to each other at all. It’s easier said then done. I remember us painfully struggling in our relationship because we couldn’t talk to each other. It could be as simple as calling each other. We would play games and waiting by the phone instead of simply calling the other person and say “hi, I miss you so I called.” We couldn’t do something as simple as that and we were both health care professionals. Couples usually breakup over bad communication skills.

A poor communication skill is the ice berg for most couples. People could be professionals and making 100k a year but they couldn’t keep their mate when they wanted to. It happened to me, most of my relationship ended this way, when I don’t even want it to end. I lost the person that I love the most in this world because I couldn’t even utter a word when I needed to. I met somebody over coffee one day and I let him took off without asking him for his contact number and I spend months looking for him when I could have done that in the first place. I notice that when hw got up to leave he was going to ask me for something and you know what I did I tried to keep busy talking to the guy sitting next to me when I should have stood up and say good-bye to him and maybe exchange numbers. Well, it’s too late for that now.

I’ve learned so much from my past that poor communication skills can ruin a lot of relationships in your life even with career and friendship as well. I took a college course in communication and it taught me that clear and concise communication is the key to understanding your mate. Some communication among couples is often miscommunication. They think that they’re expressing themselves but they are really expressing themselves confusingly to their mate.

Relationship is a very fragile topic. One mate can say something and the other can think something completely out of line. For example, when you pick up the phone on your brother and your boyfriend thinks that you are talking to another guy and no matter how hard you tried to explain he won’t listen and he insist that it’s another guy not your brother. For example, I tried to get off the phone with a guy I’m talking to because it’s lunch time at work but he thought that I’m getting

One of my co-worker told me that she lost everything she ever had before because of her husband’s cheating. She hit rock-bottom. She has to start all over again because of her husband. He is the culprit. He robbed her of everything from money to health to life. She spends several months in the hospital because she had a nervous breakdown. He took a lot of their saving and took off with a mistress leaving her with lots of pain and heartache and children. I think that she could have prevented this from happening.

Some couple ends up hitting rock-bottom because of their mate. Don’t let this happen to you. You should learn how to protect yourself from lover from hell. One of the issues that could hurt us a lot is money. Sometimes our mate would cheat on us and then empty our entire savings and took off. I’ve heard so many scenarios like this and don’t let it happen to you.

If your mate give you a big heartache you can heal in time, but emptying your entire savings would not heal any time soon. Taking all of your money will makes you very angry to the point where you can lose your mind and end up staying months in the hospital like my co-worker.

Some mate are so evil, they’ll take your house, your savings, your children, and your life away without ever thinking about your needs. They won’t care that you won’t have a house left, money left or a mind left. How could this be? The one person that we trust and married to, it’s ironic isn’t it. As you have learned over the years, things don’t always turn out the way we want them to be. We think our husband is a prince until he lost his job and then come home and starting beating our mother up for watering the grass too much because it cost too much money.

You should always keep an eye open for unexpected things between you and your mate. The course of a relationship sometimes goes wrong and you need to plan and prepare for it. Let’s start with money. You should have your own checking and saving account so that you can save for yourself without your mate ever touching it. This is so that if he or she leaves you, all of your money is not gone either. You can still have a marriage account, but always have a separate account for yourself.

It is not wise to let your mate have access to all of your money with an ATM card. How would you feel if you work hard and your mate takes your money and spend it on his mistress while you tried to save it for years. You would want to bite off your tongue don’t you? This is not a joke, it is a well known things in marriage or relationship. Don’t be nave. It can happen to you.

People change their minds and their hearts all the time and you have to plan for that. How about a prenuptial agreement, if you don’t have one you can still write one now. You can do it at home and both of you sign it; you don’t need to go to a lawyer. If you’re wealthy and you have a lot of properties and investments you don’t want to lose all of it to his mistress do you. I’ve seen this done over and over and over again. So why do we keep letting it happen. Do something about it, and take control of your future. Writing an agreement is easy just write down all the assets you have that you want to remain yours in case of dissolution and have your mate sign it and keep a copy of it somewhere safe or give it to your family member or attorney. You should indeed protect yourself from changing hearts because they change all the time.

I couldn’t believe it, one of my co-worker was murdered on a date and was hid in the trunk of a car. The suspects were our co-worker. This girl made a deadly mistake by venturing with these she thinks she trusted. Don’t let this happen to you. Don’t trust for an acting agency in Los Angeles. They went out one night and they killed her and hid her in the trunk of a car where she was found later in downtown LA. She was in her early twenties and very pretty. I wish that she would have taking more precaution then fast to date these me but tried my best to stay away from them. Some do have a lot of problem; it can be that women need to look for in their dates. It is our responsibility to make sure that we are on a safe date. No one can be responsible us but ourselves.
I guess every ex-con is different, some deserve a second chance and some need to be kept in jail. There was a reason why they went to jail in the first place. Did she ever ask herself that and also there are plenty of man to date she doesn’t need to pick an ex-con.
Most women have seen on the News about numerous cases of murder and rape and kidnapping done by the boyfriends, so why not take more precaution with us. Remember, we are solely responsible for our safety. No one can ensure this for us but us. Next time you going on date remember to scan your dates for various problems. If they seem problematic then skip that date. I was taught in nursing school that if something walks like a duck and talk like a duck and look like a duck then it is a duck. This means that if a guy looks like he’s a problem and walk like he’s a problem and talk like he’s a problem then he’s a problem.

Give her flowers like roses.

Take her to a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant with lovely views.

Buy her a new car.

Don’t yells and complain too much.

Take turn to babysit for her so she can go shopping with her friends.

Clean the house to help her out.

Don’t call her name.

Don’t be rude.

Wash the dishes sometimes.

Pick up the phone when she calls.

Spend more time with her.