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If you’re one of those unlucky person like me you will discover one day that your mate is cheating on you. What do you do now? You’ll probably be sad and heart broken. You will probably run around trying to calm yourself down. You will pity yourself. You’ll feel inadquate. You’ll feel betrayed by someone who you thought you trust. I’ve been through all of these myself.

I’ve walked into my boyfriend one time and discover that we was involved with a few other women. I even dated a person who was living with another girl. Almost every single person that I’ve dated have cheated on me one way or another. I was disappointed and felt like I’ve wasted a lot of my precious time on these men. That’s life, everyone will have these moments. Men seem to cheat more women. Why is this? Is it because they have more lust then us? They enjoy being with different people? It’s just the lust thing whereas with women, it’s love. We are losing to men somehow. It should be our goal to not reward ourselves with these relationships ever again. One day I made a promise to myself that I will never date another womanizer. I will make sure that they are a decent person. We can all do this. We can scan the guy and make sure that he’s a good guy. Men have take a heavy toll on women.

One of these day, you’ll be happy to discover that your mate is cheating on you. You should be happy because at least you know the truth and you can move on from there. Wouldn’t it be scarier to continue with someone that is living a double life? I rather find out the truth. I have seen it all the time that people continue with their current relationship and cheat on the side. I would not be able to forgive myself if I led that continue without confronting the other person. You should walk away from a bad relationship and don’t hold back. Many time people want to hold back because they feel comfortable with that relationship but holding back will hurt you more. You just have to let go and find something better for yourself.

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